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02/27(日) 山下有澤,損,君子以懲忿窒欲。 ──從「軍師聯盟」談情緒管理的重要性

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嚴定暹老師/戲說人生

From Highlights of Drama to Insights of LifeLecturer Ding Shien Yen

 

所有美好的經典戲劇,都值得你我再次重溫……

All the deeply-resonating classic drama is worth re-viewing and re-thinking, both for you and for me.

 

02/27() |下午14:00-17:00

February 27 (Sunday)/ 14:00-17:00

 

山下有澤,損,君子以懲忿窒欲。

──從「軍師聯盟」談情緒管理的重要性

 

Mountain Above Swamp, Diminish, the Superior Man Represses Rage and Desire

—“The Advisors Alliance” versus the Importance of Emotion Management

 

三國時期,諸葛亮與司馬懿對峙於五丈原,過程十分精彩絕倫——無論諸葛亮如何使出激將法,司馬懿就是堅不出兵。一日,諸葛亮派使者送來一套女裝,還寫了一封信,訕笑司馬懿是不敢迎戰的娘們。想不到,司馬懿看完信後不怒反笑,自己穿上女裝,和士兵一起大聲朗誦《出師表》,氣得對岸的諸葛亮當場吐血昏厥,加速了自己的死亡。

 

In the Three Kingdoms Period, Zhuge Liang and Sima Yi camped against each other on the Wuzhang Plains; the process was dramatically unbelievable—no matter how Zhuge Liang jeered at him, Sima Yi just refrained from launching his troop to fight.  One day, Zhuge Liang sent a messenger, bringing a set of woman clothes and a letter for Sima Yi, satirizing him as womanized, who simply dared not to fight.  Unexpectedly, after reading the letter, instead of getting angry, Sima Yi started to laugh; he put on the woman clothes and organized his soldiers to read “Chu Shi Biao (A Memorial for Military Campaign)” loudly with him.  Witnessing such a scene from the other side of the river, Zhuge Liang was so enraged that he vomited blood and fainted, accelerating his own death.

 

「情緒管理」是將帥一生必修的功課。《孫子兵法》:「主不可以怒而興師,將不可以慍而致戰。」司馬懿明白:面對諸葛亮這樣的對手,他必須慎怒,必須忍辱。一旦忍不下來的時候,就是全盤皆輸的時刻。《易經》損卦:「君子以懲忿窒欲。」司馬懿能掌控自己的憤怒,節制自己的欲望,所以即使打不過諸葛亮,卻能把諸葛亮給熬死了!

 

Emotion Management” is a lifelong course that military commanders must take.  Sun-tzu’s The Art of Warfare states: “A ruler should never declare war simply due to rage; a commander should never launch the attack due to anger.”  Sima Yi was fully aware: when confronting such an opponent as Zhuge Liang, he had to be very cautious about rage and he had to swallow up any insult.  Once you cannot bear the insult, it will be the moment for you to lose everything.  “The Sun Hexagram” of I Ching states: “the superior man represses rage and desire.”  Sima Yi could control his own rage and repress his own desire so that even though he could not defeat Zhuge Liang, he could cause Zhuge Liang to die through endless sufferings.

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